Before we begin, here's what's new:

The 2025 Annual Letter: Focus, Tradeoffs, and Capping Downside Risk

Next, here are a few short thoughts this week.

 


Money

1

Focus is a state you exist in when you finally become confident in who you are. When you say “this is who I am. These are the people I want to be around. This is the work I’m best designed to do, dammit, and it’s all I’m doing.

-From the 2025 Annual Letter

2

The key to building a valuable community isn't attracting thousands of passive followers. It's finding people who already love being active community participants.

If you want engagement, find people who are already engaging elsewhere.

-From How to Grow Social Media from Nothing (or, basically nothing)

3

This is the BEST framework I’ve ever heard about quick decision-making.

Every decision is either a:

-Hat (try on and take off)

-Haircut (you’re stuck with for a while)

-Tattoo (permanent)

From James Clear:

“Most decisions are like hats. Try one, and if you don’t like it, put it back and try another. The cost of a mistake is low, so move quickly and try a bunch of hats.

Some decisions are like haircuts. You can fix a bad one, but it won’t be quick, and you might feel foolish for a while. That said, don’t be scared of a bad haircut. Trying something new is usually a risk worth taking. If it doesn’t work out, by this time next year, you will have moved on, and so will everyone else.

A few decisions are like tattoos. Once you make them, you have to live with them. Some mistakes are irreversible. Maybe you’ll move on for a moment, but then you’ll glance in the mirror and be reminded of that choice all over again. Even years later, the decision leaves a mark. When you’re dealing with an irreversible choice, move slowly and think carefully.”

 


Health

1

Normalize rearranging your schedule to fit workout time.

Normalize building your day around your workouts.

Normalize making planned workouts non-negotiable.

-Credit: Andrew Coates

 


Relationships

1

Prioritize social depth over breadth. A few true friends outweigh countless weak connections.

 


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www.theptdc.com/articles/5-reps-Dec-12-2025

-Jon

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